Posted in portal.gznq.com | edit | March 12th, 2010
Okay so this girl I absolutely love and care about, is moving 7th of January to San Salvador, El Salvador. Because her dad is in the army. We kissed for 3 minutes about a week or two ago. I like her, she likes me. But both of us are scared, that if I ask her out, were only gonna last a month then she leaves.
Then I also know how emotional it's gonna be when we say good bye, and worst of all she is leaving a day after her birthday.
What can I do? I'm really sad.
Also my best friend is moving soon to Michigan, so right now I'm basically going crazy.Make the most out of the time you have left together especially with the girl!. Thats all the advice I can give you!Love her and express your feelings toward one another. Try to keep in contact after she moves through letters, phone calls, emails, and etc. Please don't make the mistake of taking your relationship further with intercourse. Having sex will not solidify your relationship. It will not make it stronger. It could have negative effects (like pregnancy). The best thing to do is stay friends and communicate as much as possible with each other. If you both truly care for each other and you guys are meant to be with one another, then you will see each other in the future. If not, consider it puppy love or your first love. Cherish those memories forever. Remember, try to keep in contact because some relationships grow stronger through separation.Even though it will be very emotional when she leaves, give her the best time ever before she has to move. and make it EXTRA SPECIAL on her birthday. Take her out to the movies or for a picnic. getting closer with her will only make it harder when she moves..
im not saying to not like her, but getting closer you will get more attached and the good bye will kill you.
hope things go okay.
Spend as much time with her as possible.Make the most of the time you DO have left with each other. Some time is better than no time.
Once she goes, you probably won't see her in years. By which time both of you will have moved on.
You can't stop her moving, but you can stop regretting this in the future. Make a move. Even if she turns you down, you'll know you had a shot. But if you kissed, I'd guess she likes you.
Have fun! :)Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry.
I bet thats hard.
You know, something almost exactly the same happened to me.
I know you love her, but I think you should make the best of your time together or that will be the biggest regret.
I'm so sorry.
Love Zeldaforevai think you should make the most of this last month, go to extremes i recon so you have no regrets tell her you love her and spend time with her kissing and cuddling keep it special but innocent
i dont think you need to be in a relationship but share your feelings and as a way to celebrate this short but amazing last time together do something special for her on her birthday and give her something memorable so that when she leaves you'll both never forget the time you spent together even though it wasn't long the memories can last a lifetime.
good luck!duh ..
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